She was right. Responding in anger would give my mother exactly the footage she wanted. Colleen being unstable. Colleen proving she was the difficult one. My mother would edit whatever I said into evidence of her narrative and it would be twice as convincing because I would have handed it to her voluntarily.

So I called Laura instead.

Another letter went out. Formal documentation of the defamatory content, a citation of applicable law, and a clear statement that continued public false statements would result in litigation. The video came down within forty-eight hours.

The damage had been done in the sense that people had already seen it and drawn their conclusions. I had to make peace with the fact that strangers’ understanding of me was not mine to control and was not, ultimately, the thing that mattered.

My son’s safety mattered. My peace mattered. The life I had built mattered.