That night I decided to confront her calmly because I hoped perhaps anger had twisted her words in a moment of frustration. “Brianna,” I asked gently while we stood in the kitchen together, “did you really say those things about me today on the phone.”
She shrugged carelessly and waved her hand as if the matter were unimportant. “I was only venting Mom,” she replied impatiently, “you know people complain sometimes and it does not mean anything.”
Unfortunately nothing improved after that conversation and the distance between us grew colder each day. Soon she insisted that I eat at the small kitchen table while she and the children used the dining room because she claimed watching me eat made them uncomfortable.
She also discouraged the children from sitting close to me on the sofa because she said older people sometimes carried strange odors. I remained silent through all of it because love for a child often convinces a parent to endure quiet humiliation.