Mark’s face softened. “Good,” he said. “You still know how to do that.”
Over the next few weeks, he became what he always had been in my life: structure where panic wanted chaos.
He helped me inventory the lodge room by room. We made spreadsheets for bookings, expenses, recurring maintenance, staffing needs, and deferred repairs. He built a better website in two nights off old templates and stubbornness. He talked me out of trying to answer every possible problem before doing the next obvious thing.
“Your father wins if you make him the center of your operating model,” he told me one night as we sat on the porch eating takeout noodles from cartons while the valley went dark beneath us. “This place doesn’t need your panic. It needs your attention.”
He was right.
So I started there.
Attention.