I set my small overnight bag by the stairs and looked her in the eye. “I am not here to cause any trouble or be a distraction for anyone.”

Gladys stepped closer and lowered her voice to a sharp whisper. “I heard you left the Coast Guard, which is such a shame since it was the only respectable thing you ever did.”

I remained silent, letting her believe whatever version of the story made her feel superior. She took my silence as a sign of defeat and smiled like she had already won the battle.

“If you aren’t in the service anymore, then you are just a girl with no direction,” she added. She flicked her gaze toward the dining table where she had laid out the event programs.

The younger version of me would have argued with her, but the woman I had become knew better than to fight. I realized that you should never wrestle with someone who actually enjoys the dirt.

“I am going to help with the preparations,” I said as I walked past her into the kitchen.

My father was standing at the counter with a guest list, looking at the names with a focused expression. He had more gray in his hair now, but he still had the same squared shoulders I remembered.