I looked at Mark—the man I had married when he was a struggling junior analyst with a hole in his shoe and a dream of “making it big.” I had supported him through three separate “career pivots,” each ending with him quitting because his bosses didn’t “appreciate his vision” or “understand his unique perspective.” I had been the architect of our stability, the foundation upon which he had built his house of cards. I was a thirty-six-year-old software architect who had traded my youth and the glow of my skin for stock options, sleepless nights, and the relentless hum of server rooms.

And here he was, leaning against a marble pillar I had hand-selected from a quarry, acting like he was the King of the Hill.

“Mark,” I said, my voice barely a whisper, vibrating with the effort to remain steady. “I paid for this house. Every single cent. The deed is in my name. I paid for that bourbon in your hand. I even paid for the silk tie you’re wearing to look ‘successful’ for your little weekend poker games.”