My 4.0 GPA, business competition wins, and acceptance to a prestigious university meant nothing to them. I had never been enough, and apparently I never would be. The next morning, puffy-eyed and exhausted, I confronted my parents in the kitchen before school.

How could you have saved college money for Lily but not for me? I asked, my voice breaking, despite my attempts to stay composed. Mom sighed as she stirred her coffee. Emma, it’s not that simple.

We had to make practical decisions with our limited resources. But I have better grades than Lily, I countered. I’ve been working part-time for two years while maintaining perfect academics.

How is that not showing? Dedication? Dad closed his newspaper with a sharp snap. Your sister has always been dedicated to academics. You’ve been too distracted with other activities and that job of yours.

Besides, Lily has a clear career path. Your business ideas are risky at best. You never even asked about my plans, I whispered.

Look, Mom interjected, we can help you fill out loan applications. Plenty of students finance their own education. The conversation ended there because they had already made their decision.