I packed my belongings in secondhand suitcases and boxes scavenged from grocery stores. The night before I left, Mom awkwardly offered me some of her old twin sheets for my new bed. It was the only acknowledgement that I, too, was starting college.

On move-in day, my parents drove Lily to campus, in our family SUV packed with her belongings. I followed behind in my decade-old Honda that frequently needed coolant and made concerning noises when I braked. No one had offered to check it before my two-hour drive to my new life.

As we parted ways at the campus entrance, my parents and Lily heading to her premium dorm, me continuing alone to my distant apartment, Mom called out, Good luck, Emma. I hope this all works out for you. The doubt in her voice only strengthened my resolve.

This wouldn’t just work out. I would make it triumphant. My new apartment was a shock, peeling paint, unreliable plumbing, and roommates who were strangers….