“Mommy, look!” she said, slamming it down on the table. “We’re having a dance at school!”

Bold letters at the top: JEFFERSON ELEMENTARY ANNUAL DADDY-DAUGHTER DANCE.

Her eyes sparkled.

“All my friends are going. Can I go too? Please? I’ll wear my sparkly shoes. And we have to practice dancing so I don’t fall.”

My heart did that weird thing where it breaks and melts at the same time.

The flyer might as well have had another line printed across the bottom:

Not for girls like you.

I tried to smile.

“That looks fun,” I said. “Let me… call the school and see how it works, okay?”

She nodded, already chattering about playlists and hairstyles.

I went into the laundry room so she wouldn’t see my hands shake and dialed the number from the flyer.

“Jefferson Elementary, this is Connie, how can I help you?”

“Hi, this is Sita Patterson’s mom,” I said. “I’m calling about the daddy-daughter dance.”

“Oh, yes!” she said. “It’s such a special tradition here. The girls love it.”

“Is there… any flexibility?” I asked. “Like, can moms go? Or grandfathers? Uncles? Sita doesn’t have a father and—”