His sister, Laura Lopes, will also be absent. Known for her work as an art curator and gallery director, she has always maintained a private life away from royal scrutiny. She and her husband, Harry Lopes, live quietly with their three children, and Christmas for them typically unfolds far from cameras and official estates.
A reminder of personal history behind public roles

Neither of Camilla’s children holds a royal title, yet both remain close to their mother. Their decision to spend Christmas apart from the royal household does not reflect distance, only the realities of their own long-established family rhythms.
Tom’s life has carried its share of joy and loss. A respected food writer who has published seven cookbooks and won the 2020 Guild of Food Writers award, he also endured the death of his partner, journalist Alice Procope, in 2021. In reflecting on his mother’s past, he has spoken candidly about the challenges of the 1990s, recalling aggressive paparazzi chases and moments that left emotional scars. His loyalty to Camilla runs deep, even if holidays do not always align.