Third time he asked, I felt the first little tickle of unease.

By the time Claire called me four months into their relationship, breathless and laughing, to say, “Dad, he proposed!” that tickle had become a steady itch in the back of my mind.

“He took me to this restaurant in Denver, Dad. Candlelight, live jazz, the whole cliché. But it was… perfect.” She laughed again, higher and more nervous this time. “I said yes. Of course I said yes.”

“Congratulations, sweetheart,” I said, because that’s what a father is supposed to say. “I’m happy for you. He seems like a great guy.”

After we hung up, I sat there in my quiet kitchen, phone still in my hand, listening to the refrigerator hum and the wind scratch at the windows. The ranch, the land, the life Linda and I had built suddenly felt like a set of numbers on a ledger in someone else’s hands.

So I did something I hadn’t done in a long time. I pulled out the property deed.