If something broke, leaked, stalled, or had to be paid by Friday, my name surfaced immediately. I was the oldest child, the one with a plan, the one who handled things before they became disasters.

My younger sister, Savannah, was the opposite. She collected attention the way some people collect receipts. She drifted from idea to idea, from one identity to the next, and somehow every failure around her became a family emergency. Our parents never said it plainly, but our roles were fixed early. Savannah made messes. I cleaned them up. Savannah was “having a hard time.” I was “good with numbers.” Savannah got forgiveness. I got assignments.

Real estate suited me because it was one of the few parts of my life where chaos could be measured, negotiated, and contained. People thought the job was all polished kitchens and champagne at closing. It wasn’t.

It was bad inspections, late-night lender calls, cracked foundations, and buyers trying not to panic while their entire future sat in a contract full of deadlines. I loved it anyway. I loved handing people keys and watching fear turn into relief. Maybe because home had never felt simple to me.