Whenever I suggested we get our own place, he made excuses.

“We don’t have enough money.”

“It’s not the right time.”

“Let’s just wait.”

And then he’d add, like a punchline:

“Besides, Mom would be lonely.”

Lonely.

But Olivia didn’t act lonely.

She acted powerful.

She liked ordering me around. She liked watching me hustle after work, still in my office clothes, cooking dinner while she sat on the couch with the TV volume too loud.

She liked the way I swallowed my anger because I didn’t want to be “that wife.”

And slowly, my body started betraying me.

At first it was insomnia.

Then headaches.

Then the kind of stomach aches that make you feel like your organs are trying to escape.

One night I started crying while folding towels and couldn’t stop.

It scared me.

I went to a doctor, then a therapist.

The diagnosis was clinical and cold:

Adjustment disorder.

But what it meant was simple.

My life had become a stress reaction.

I was living in survival mode in my own marriage.

Olivia didn’t care.

“If you’re told to do something, you do it immediately,” she snapped one morning when I asked for a break. “Don’t give me excuses.”

A daughter-in-law, to her, wasn’t family.

She was labor.