The ceremony passed in a blur. My friends cheered wildly when my name was called. From the stage, I could see my mother clapping enthusiastically. Tyler smiled. James applauded politely. My father clapped only a few times, like he was fulfilling an obligation rather than expressing pride.
Afterward, we all gathered, and things seemed almost manageable. My mother hugged me warmly. Tyler tried to connect. James was distant. My father congratulated me like a businessman acknowledging a minor achievement. We all ended up going to lunch with my friends and their families, and that was when the contrast between my two worlds became impossible to ignore. My friends’ parents spoke about me with warmth and admiration. My father turned every accomplishment into an opportunity for critique. Yale was not the right choice. Constitutional law was too abstract. Leadership roles were a distraction. Everything had to be diminished.