That night, I told my family I was going to Berkeley to study pre-law. My mother looked proud and frightened at the same time. James disapproved immediately. Tyler stayed quiet. My father simply repeated “Berkeley” as if it were an accusation, then told me I would be going there without his support. He did not raise his voice. He calmly explained that the money he had set aside for my education would be redirected elsewhere because I had chosen a path he did not value. To him, cutting me off was not emotional. It was strategic.

Later that night, my mother came into my room and slipped me an envelope with five thousand dollars inside. She told me my father could never know. That money became the beginning of my independence.