Richard had told me he had a son, but meeting that small, cautious boy in person stirred something deep in me.

“This is Victoria,” Richard said gently. “She’s the lady I’ve been telling you about.”

I crouched down and smiled at him. “Hi, Nathan. Your dad says you’re into dinosaurs. I brought you a little something.” I handed him a gift bag with a paleontology book inside.

Richard later told me Nathan kept that book under his pillow for weeks.

When Richard proposed six months later, I made sure to ask Nathan’s permission before saying yes.

At the time of our wedding, Nathan’s mother had been gone for two years. I never tried to replace her. I simply found my own space in Nathan’s life.

Richard and I never had children together.

We thought about it but never acted on it—the timing never seemed right. But in truth, Nathan brought so much life and love into our home that we didn’t feel the absence.

When Richard passed away suddenly from a stroke five years ago, our world shattered. He was only 53. Nathan had just been accepted into college. I’ll never forget the look in his eyes when I told him.