The first time I ever learned how to file a tax form, I was sixteen and standing on a chair so I could reach the kitchen counter. Our mom had been gone six months, our dad two years, and the only adult in our apartment was me. The air smelled like dish soap and cheap detergent. My little sister Alyssa sat at the table swinging her legs and humming because she still believed someone older would eventually show up and fix everything.

No one did.

So I became the someone.

I learned how to braid hair from online videos and how to patch torn socks with a needle. I learned how to stretch one pound of ground beef into three nights of dinner. When teachers called asking for a parent I answered the phone and said calmly, “This is Natalie Carter speaking. How can I help?”

For years my life had only one rule. Handle it.