His name was Dylan Foster, and he loved birthdays loudly, publicly, and with the assumption that everyone around him would celebrate the event as enthusiastically as he did. He told people he was turning twenty six, which was the age he used online and the age he repeated at bars with a confident grin, even though the truth was that he was turning twenty eight and had been lying about it for almost two years.

I discovered the lie months earlier when he asked me to hold his wallet while he carried grocery bags, and I noticed the birth year printed clearly on his driver’s license. When I confronted him he shrugged with a playful smile and said, “Twenty eight doesn’t photograph as well as twenty six,” as if his age were part of a marketing strategy instead of a fact.

Despite the strange logic I allowed the moment to pass because loving someone sometimes means ignoring small warning signs in order to preserve the peace you believe is real. That afternoon I carried a chocolate soufflé cake from an expensive bakery called Silver Maple Patisserie, where the pastry box alone looked like a luxury gift wrapped with satin ribbon.