The entry rug my mother used to shake out over the porch rail each Saturday morning was gone. In its place lay a pale sisal runner that looked like it had been selected from a catalog called Coastal Serenity for Women Who Don’t Actually Like the Coast. The hallway table where my mother kept a ceramic bowl full of shells she and I had collected together was gone too. There was a narrow mirrored console instead, topped with coral-shaped candlesticks and a framed black-and-white photo of Diana and my father at some gala, both of them smiling into a life that had cost someone else everything.

The violence of that small replacement hit me harder than I expected.

People think theft always looks like disappearance. Sometimes it looks like substitution.