Dr Fleming’s expression hardened slightly. “Audrey, I’ve observed your family Dynamic over the past 2 years. I’ve seen your parents at hospital functions, heard how they speak about both you and your sister. I understand your hesitation, but sometimes recognition needs to be public to be acknowledged at all.”

She was right, of course. If my parents heard about the fellowship privately, they’d find a way to minimize it or attribute it to luck rather than achievement.

“Okay,” I nodded slowly. “You can announce it.”

As I left her office, my phone buzzed with a text from Jessica: “Mom’s going overboard for tonight. It’s embarrassing. Wish she’d put this much effort into celebrating both of us graduating. See you there.” Har.

I stared at the message, confused. It was the first time Jessica had ever acknowledged our parents’ unequal treatment. Before I could formulate a response, another text came through—this time from my mother: “Don’t forget business casual for tonight, and please let your sister have her moment. This is very important to her.”