“Did you tell me before?” I asked, though even as I said it I knew children often tell us the truth in ways adults are too busy to hear.

Lily shrugged. “I thought maybe it was just because there wasn’t room.”

“And I don’t like making stuff worse,” she added after a second, so quietly I almost missed it.

That sentence belonged to me. Not in content. In shape. In burden. In the old, familiar instinct to manage other people’s discomfort before your own. Hearing it in my daughter’s voice felt like looking at a bruise I had somehow passed down.