For a brief second, I remembered him as a boy who used to fall asleep on textbooks and ask me to read poetry aloud when he could not understand the words on his own.

Then the memory faded under the weight of the present.

That was when I heard a voice beside me.

“Do not sit like you are invisible,” the voice said quietly, steady and controlled.

I turned slightly and saw a man sitting next to me who I did not recognize, yet his presence made it feel like he had always belonged there.

He was calm in a way that did not ask permission, and his eyes did not carry pity, only attention.

Before I could respond, he leaned slightly closer and spoke again in a lower tone.

“Your son is going to look over here soon,” he said. “When he does, you should not look away.”

I frowned, unsure why I was listening to a stranger, but something about his certainty made me stay still.

When Andrew’s gaze finally moved across the room during the ceremony, it landed on me longer than I expected.

I saw confusion rise in his face the moment he noticed the man beside me, as if the presence of someone unknown near me did not fit the version of me he had constructed in his mind.